Catholic teaching says that all fear,
with the only exception of fear of offending God,
comes from the devil.
Fear has many degrees; from faint uneasiness, anxiousness,
nervousness, fear, to panic and full blown terror.
So why do we say that it comes from the devil?
Because it prevents us from trusting in God, who is in
reality and truth always present and ready to help us, in any
situation, if we allow Him access, but us being afraid is a solid
barrier.
The devil wants us to worry, as that will assure us being on his
side.
And the pharmaceutical industry profits hugely from the
population living in anxiety, likewise therapists and counselors.
The problem is not the feeling of fear. Because it is NORMAL
to feel fear when there is a danger, either to us personally or to
someone we love.
It is also NORMAL to feel stressed in situations when there is
a lot at stake for us personally, for example before and during
important interviews and performances.
But nowadays many people think that they suffer from anxiety
when they experience these normal, passing, feelings.
It is the interpretations and diagnosis of these, both by the
medical profession and therapists, which poses the problem, but
before a person arrives there, what brought him there?
His own high esteem in which he holds the doctor, his belief in
their capacities to cure whatever it is,
because he himself sees it as a problem, something that
"shouldn't be there".
It is the world that tells him that these feelings are an illness
which has a medical solution. They tell you that you
"have anxiety", you "suffer from anxiety", in the same way as
you would suffer from a physical condition.
In reality, it is just life.
There are exceptions which are medical, and need
medical supervision and control, but the vast majority
of people being put on "medication", are not dealt with
properly from the beginning.
These medications always have side effects, they can
cause long term damage and they reduce your quality of
life.
And the therapist is capable of saying anything, listening
to you they will interpret and "diagnose" everything you say,
label you as suffering from anxiety because you experienced
feeling of fear in situations where it was totally normal to
feel fear.
A doctor can say to a young teenager, an only child, who had
just lost her mother to suicide, that she had
"hormonal imbalances",
prescribed a drug that was supposed to rectify it, but which
made her very sick, she put on a ton of weight, and in the
end she was diagnosed with cancer.
The drug had in the meantime been taken off the market, as
it had been proven to cause cancer.
This girl was used as a guinea pig, without knowing it.
I know this case, and many other instances, this is just one.
This is the reality of medicine.
Despite this, most people have an unfailing belief in doctors,
it is their trust and belief in them that brings them to them in
the first place.
And most doctors feel that they should give their patients
something, since they are present in their office.
But there is something that WE can do, consciously, when we
are experiencing fear, when we feel overwhelmed by it, or tense
in body and spirit because of a stressful situation; we can surrender
and trust in God, and that is the meaning of the prohibition of fear
in the authentic living out the Catholic Faith.
Faith, Belief, Trust comes first, then knowledge comes, which
enables us to surrender to Him who is much greater than us, and
who unfailingly helps and assists in proportion to the degree of
trust and surrender to Him.
This is not a way of evading the fear, or of cutting ourselves off
from feeling it, on the contrary; it is a way of fully accepting it,
stopping the resistance to it (which is the unwillingness to accept )
and in so doing, handing it over, in trust,
to Jesus Christ; true God and true Man.
The way to God is through ourselves, it is by going inside.
Most people spend their lives looking for happiness in the world;
the right job, the right partner, the right house, car, holidays etc. etc.
They always find that that happiness is short lived, the void comes
back, the nagging feeling of lack of fulfillment that will not go away.
But if you earnestly seek what will truly make you happy,
you will find it.
Do not ever let fear paralyze you, because that is what fear
does best.
When we are nervous, we often can not even speak coherently,
our brain does not function normally.
This is unacceptable.
We have the Source that gives life to the world available to us,
it demands our interest and learning. It is often, paradoxically,
when we are most afraid, that we loose the capacity to hold on to
the fear, the mind let go of the grip on it, we surrender, and we see
that it was ourselves that maintained the fear. We kept feeding
this beast of our imagination by our repetitive thoughts, maybe
of what was said to us, e.g.:
"I am suffering from anxiety, I am anxious, I am afraid", etc, etc.
The devil thrives on all the attention he gets like this.
It is we who are doing it. The devil is also in us, doing everything
to disturb our peace and trust in love and goodness: God.
Jesus, I trust in You.
Fear; just go away, I am not interested in you.
https://www.catholicdoors.com/prayers/novenas/p03530.htm
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